Mentioning male/male fetishes and fantasies can be a sign he is bi-curious. (5 Secret Male Fetishes) Even if he says it in a joking manner but does it repeatedly, this is a real sign he is bi-curious because he is thinking about homosexual activities. He may be serious and honest when he speaks of these fetishes. It might be something he isn’t ashamed to say out loud and you’ll know right away that he is bi-curious.
Be sure to remember that bi-curious means different things to different people. Some men feel it mean being equally attracted to men as women. Other men feel it means they have a faint but real curiosity about sex within their own gender. A person’s sexual orientation is very personal and different for each. Read about a new method for predicting sexual orientation
Another thing to keep in mind when discussing bi-curious males is they are often afraid of being exposed or refused or turned down or all three. Signs with bi-curious men are always very subtle and hardly noticeable which makes things even harder to decipher. The world is much more open to heterosexual couples initiating contact so bi-curious men may not be comfortable showing that side of their personality.
Casual touching can be another sign he is bi-curious. A soft nudge on the elbow or a quick touch on the arm or lower back can mean he’s into you. This will be a stronger sign if there is constant eye contact as well.
Gay porn or erotica is a sure sign he is bi-curious. Even if he never asks you to watch it with him or talk about it, just having it under the bed or in the bathroom is a definite sign he is bi-curious. Even if he picks it up in the magazine isle and thumbs through it, cracking a few jokes along the way, it can be a sign he is interested.
Making a male on male romantic connection is easier than it has ever been but that doesn’t mean there are no more boundaries. Some people still don’t feel comfortable coming out, at least not to everyone in their lives. It can be hard to tell so start by paying attention to the little things and making a connection the good old fashioned way. Start slow, build trust and a friendship. Time will tell.