Dating apps are a gay man’s best friend. They have allowed so many of us who had no previous outlet to be able to come together online. It has made dating easier for everyone and especially people who are shy or socially awkward. Two of the best apps for gay dating are Tinder and Grindr. Both have their own benefits and disadvantages.
Tinder Caters To A Younger Crowd
Tinder is marketed toward anyone, but college kids in specific. People of all ages use Tinder and all types of sexual orientations are represented. Grindr is geared toward gay men specifically so if that is your only interest Grindr is the app for you. If you date on a broader spectrum you may find Tinder has more appeal for you.
A Grindr Privacy Is Important
Grindr not only focuses on gay and bi men exclusively it doesn’t have the Tinder privacy issue of linking to Facebook. Tinder uses five pictures from your profile page to show other members. Grindr accounts can be solo accounts and linked to any other social media account.
Tinder works better for one night stands and overnight hookups. It gives a limited view of users and promotes the quickie mentality. There is no pressure like with traditional dating sites and the whole affair is much more casual. Since you can look at people’s preferences on Grindr, you’re able to tell if they want to hookup or are looking for something steady. You have a greater chance at success if you’re both going for the same thing.
Both Tinder & Grindr Offer Advanced GEO Searches
Both apps will allow you a chance to find a hookup close to you. They will find your GPS location information and use it to find matches close to where you are. They both offer options for other locations as well in case you’re on vacation or out of town. Most people are going to use an app for a hookup although more and more people are making their dates last. It is more common that they end at the end of the night. That’s where the ease of Tinder’s usage and setup comes in. It is aimed toward focusing on looks and attraction and not information overload. It makes hooking up guilt free like never before.
If you’re strictly gay male, Grindr is your best bet. If your bisexual but in the mood for a one night stand with a guy, Grindr is your site. Even if you’re looking for something longer, Grindr is your site as long as you’re interested in other men.
In the end go with the one you like the best for whatever reason. Maybe it’s the simplistic style, or perhaps the vibrant colors. Maybe it works for you every time you log on. Sometimes it’s just a feeling you get and you have to go with it. Trust your instincts and the rest will fall in place.