{"id":32,"date":"2015-08-28T03:03:14","date_gmt":"2015-08-28T03:03:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/m4mdates.com\/blog\/?p=32"},"modified":"2015-10-18T02:18:11","modified_gmt":"2015-10-18T02:18:11","slug":"how-to-court-your-crush-on-social-media","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/m4mdates.com\/blog\/how-to-court-your-crush-on-social-media\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Court Your Crush On Social Media"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Rainbow Flag Gay Pride<\/figcaption><\/figure>It isn\u2019t uncommon for couple\u2019s first interaction to be on social media. In fact, it may be their only Interaction for quite a while. You get to know the person they show the world and suddenly you\u2019re spending a lot of time chatting with this guy and you\u2019re investing a lot of emotions before you know it. Before any of that happens you need to catch his eye on social media<\/a> and let him know you\u2019re interested in him.
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\nExperts today say to start with Instagram<\/a>. Your real name is searchable so no matter what crazy screen name he uses you can probably find him. One you have your own account and have your crush put up your best most photogenic pics with catchy taglines<\/a>. If you have photos associated with your crush tag him as well. Tag businesses or restaurants you were in as well. Remind him how much you have together and show the world you have serious intentions. <\/p>\n

There are risks to keep in mind, however. There is a fine line between crushing on someone online and getting labeled a creeper so be very careful. If you\u2019re looking at his Instagram photos and you\u2019re scrolling past page 47 and your finger jerks and you accidentally tap the like button, you\u2019ve blown it. He will know you have devoured his entire history online and immediate creepiness will exude. It takes finesse. <\/p>\n

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Gay Men Are On Social Media<\/figcaption><\/figure>Twitter<\/a> is another social media avenue for playing it cool. You can hear what people are thinking at the moment essentially. Liking a person\u2019s tweet is a subtle way of saying Hi. You should never like more than one of his tweets at a time though, or you will look like a weirdo. Your last resort should be Facebook chat. It tells others when you are online and whether or not you received their last message. Connect with you crush on social media slowly, never all at once. It gives a creepy vibe when you\u2019re notified about the same dude 10 times in a row.<\/p>\n

Always be respectful. Do not over share your thoughts and feelings about your crush until you\u2019re sure that is what he wants to do. Respect his feelings as you expect your feelings to be respected. Be understanding in how much of his life he wants exposed on social media and never cross the threshold of what feels comfortable. Don\u2019t do anything crazy like friend all his exes, friends and family members. – How Much Is To Much To Share On Social Media?<\/a> –<\/p>\n

As your relationship grows online he will become more comfortable with your presence and association with you online. He\u2019ll become accustomed to your humor and brand of flirting and understand you far better. Your intentions will be more visible and your jokes more evident. He has a better chance at really getting to know you online.
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